“When it comes to being BOLD, what comes first: Courage or Confidence?”
A thought-provoking *chicken or egg*, isn’t it?
After researching, reflecting, and my favorite way to learn: experience and observation, I had concluded: It Depends. (Yes, the ULTIMATE NOT-SATISFYING RESPONSE TO ANYTHING!) Or, Both:
It takes Courage to be Confident.
It takes Confidence to be Courageous.
Which begs two questions: “How do I become Courageous in a situation if I’m not feeling Confident?” (and) “How do I become Confident if I’m not feeling Courageous?!”
Dr. Maya Angelou recently shed light on this in her wise and wonderful way. She says:
COURAGE is the most important of all virtues. Because without COURAGE you cannot practice the others consistently.
So there it is.
And here is my 2-step BOLD interpretation for you:
Let your Courage (your ability to do something that frightens you) support, guide and champion your Confidence.
First: Let Courage be your WILLINGNESS to step in… the engine deep inside you that says not necessarily *I can* do this (that will come)… start with *I WILL* do this, fear and all. When you WILL do, feeling the fear and doing it anyway… that’s bravery, that’s Courage. This is where you start.
Next: Your Courage shows up and suddenly you’re ready for your Confidence to kick in… moving you into ACTION… even tiny-step action… to achieve whatever is right in front of you. Confidence is your *can do*, I DID IT! feeling. You’ll build new Confidence by taking Courageous, inspired action on whatever is stopping you.
When it comes to being BOLD… Confidence is the gift in being Courageous.
I hope you find comfort in this next time you have an unsurmountable situation of any size roadblocking you from achieving that next thing. Big or Small. Work or Life.
Trust COURAGE as your stepping stone to fire-up your CONFIDENCE… as you move forward, creating your next Success…
It’s Up To YOU!
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Photo: I love colored glass. This vase makes us smile year-round. I move it to a spot where it catches the sun and dances little spots of sunlight across our living room. I’m smiling thinking about it. Note to self: Fill life with simple smile-inducing-ness!
PS. THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE. I hope writings here inspire you to take new action, to Do One BOLD Thing to create new success, as you Lead Live and Love your right-fit-for-you BOLD Exclamation Point *!* Life! Because even tho it may be dressed as Business or Work, it’s all Life.