Are you confidently (courageously!) making decisions, focusing your time, energy and effort on matters that truly are within your control?
Or do you spin in place, struggling with indecision, re-thinking it over and over… when you really might just need to simply let it go?
In his book *That’s Outside My Boat*, Olympic journalist Charlie Jones was disappointed to be assigned reporting the rowing and kayaking competitions. Who attends those? (I would!)
He decided to give this bummer assignment his best shot anyway.
BOLD NUGGET: Give a bummer situation your best shot… keep your peripheral view open… see where it leads!
While asked how they handle high winds, rough water, or a broken oar, the athletes consistently responded, *that’s outside my boat*. They clearly did not waste time, effort or energy on things outside of their control.
BOLD NUGGET: Practice letting go of things that truly are outside your boat/outside your control!
So what DID these athletes take charge of? Their individual training efforts, food they chose as fuel, their mindset, laser focus, and the resulting positive impact on their performance, goal and outcome (crossing that finish line first!). When it comes to preparing for competition: *that’s inside my boat*.
Stop and ask yourself if the decision, situation or issue you’re struggling with is actually inside? or outside? YOUR boat.
Inside your boat? Step up, be accountable, and take responsibility (Own it.) Soon you’ll be setting new goals, getting laser-focused, creating new success as you chart your course based on those areas you actually can control…
Dig deep, finding strength, courage and renewed confidence as you…
LET THE REST GO!
© 1993-2012 Ann Ulrich THE BOLD! FACTOR® ANNULRICH.COM
Photo: This was a joke at first – an auction item I wanted for a gag gift at our cabin gatherings. But when this pretty little fish came home and found it’s place in the window overlooking the river – it was a Keeper!